 | Rekindling the spark in your
relationship What
is the meaning of being in love? How do you explain to someone what it means if
they have never experienced it? There is one fact that remains constant… if you
have never felt it with your partner, you wouldn’t be able to rekindle it. Love
is a delicate balance, a mutual feeling shared in a successful relationship.
The same applies for being in love. If the feeling is for some reason not
mutual it WILL fail. Do
you remember the last time both of you were in love? How has things changed
since then? Determining the answers of the questions above may equal a
solution for your problem. The following you will have to compare to the first
6 months of your relationship: Do
you still hug as much as you used to? |
Do
you still enjoy making love to your partner as much as you used to?
Do
you even hold hands anymore?
The
above mentioned I used as examples of the type of question that you would have
to ask yourself. Now finally the question still stands…..How do I rekindle the
flame in my relationship…how do I get the feeling back of being in love? Start
thinking how you fell in love the 1st time!!
Try
kissing, making love, hugging, holding hands, talking, being spontaneous and
doing little things for each other more and more often.
Try
occasionally doing a romantic or surprise dinner for example… You could also
think of things you used to do as a couple that you both used to enjoy, find
interesting and appreciate.
Rekindling
the spark in your relationship is not going to happen over night and as you are
reading this, I am assuming that putting the needed “work” into your
relationship is definitely worth your while and easier than you think!!!
You
need to stop thinking of the problem and find where things started going wrong…
think of it as losing your keys for example.
Your
problem: lost keys
To
find them you….Retrace your steps until what you have lost, is found!
